Being an engineer (who didn't stay at a Holiday Inn), I'll take a shot at explaining why the top link bent.
I believe it all had to do with the mower being assembled wrong in the first place. The top link yoke was upside down/backward originally, as pointed out by TDVT. With that yoke on backward, there was a plate welded between the sides of the yoke beneath the top link (see the OP's photos). When the mower was raised, or lifted by backing into a hill, or whatever, that plate hit the top link and bent it. With the yoke installed correctly, that plate is on the rear of the yoke, not under the top link. I doubt it will be an issue from now on.