5 months now, UPDATE
Thank you all for your prayers, concerns, thoughts, suggestions ... very much appreciated. I just found this thread back.
It took about 2 months to even get back to writing things down, using a computer, driving (couldn't grip steering wheel) holding a pen etc, but I'm getting there. Sorry for the delays in my notes / updates. I am starting to do bookkeeping and taxes again, but everything is scaled back.
I'm doing fine, but still on them mend. I am taking physio appts every 2-3 weeks and making progress, home exercises with the bands and grip type aids etc. Physio Therapist says that my physical recovery will probably take a year (ie Sept), so my target date is late June. Winter has been tough, and I am second-guessing every move / step. I have shoulder pain (manageable), sore arm, tingling in fingers and hand, but things are improving. Strength is my focus also, the setback is always my biggest challenge.
Climbing on / off the tractor, I need to adjust and figure it out right now, as my good side can't cope. It took 6 weeks before I could even hold the steering wheel of tractor or truck, so getting back to driving was very welcomed progress - I can go to town for groceries again.
As far as the bidet idea, yes, would be good. For the past 3 yrs, we have a walk-in-tub and there is a built in bidet jet (strategically placed

, so I am managing also with that.
It is winter, and I do still wipe out a few times, but I'm managing, and not making things worse.
side note - I've had to do everything for a few months as my wife is up north assisting her father / family with his aging needs, health, dementia and planning long term care / assisted living (very difficult time for her) - she's been there since early November.
have an awesome day,