I'll add a little bit to this. At the farm where we used to board our two horses, the owner burns firewood, as we do. We help her bring it from the barn to the house and store it.
Two of the people that ride there are 13 year old girls, both very nice young ladies. Last winter we had lots of snow, and we were hauling firewood one Sunday afternoon, with the girls helping me load the tractor bucket and then going back to the house to help stack it.
After a trip or two, (we put in about a cord at a time) they started asking if they could ride in the bucket on the way to the barn, then perched like two squirrels on the fenders for the trip to the house, chattering away and generally having a great time.
They tried to convince me to lift it all the way up and dump them into a deep snowbank, but after thinking about one of them maybe banging her head on the bucket lip on the way out I decided that wasn't going to happen.
One mother noticed the two of them in the bucket and was a bit worried about the safety of it. The other (farm girl from way back) laughed and said that at that age, she was driving the tractor, not riding in the bucket..
I guess my point is that we can't insulate them from everything and still have them grow up to be self-sufficient young adults, nor should we rob them of their youth. If they want to take a half hour to muck a stall out, that's fine with me, there'll come a time in their lives when they don't have the luxury of taking their time.
It's nice to see your daughter actually WANT to play with the backhoe just like Dad, instead of spending her time playing a video game or gabbling on Facebook or replying to a post on some internet site... hmm.. slippery ground there :laughing:
Sean
Sean