FYI The OP was asking about new DEF machines not your DEF free MahindraI agree with most of what you wrote.
But not all models have to stop to re-gen. Some do that on the go, and some allow you to delay re-gen until you are ready for it to happen.
Some tractors don't have a DPF at all, or DEF. I had a 2019 Mahindra 6075 with no DEF or DPF because the engine passed govt emissions tests without them. But, as always, there's a trade off. I think the Mahindra mCRD engines run hotter at more fuel consumption to burn off cleaner. I put a 1000 hours on that tractor and didn't have issues with the way it ran.
Pay attention to every time you see a new transport truck with DEF sitting at the side of the road with the safety markers out. A lot of trucks are getting stuck into limp mode due to an error code in the computer that can only be resolved by a $500 service call from the dealer for a guy to show up, plug in a laptop and clear the code.
Some DEF machines force you into a parked regen. Think about that when you are paying a guy $30/hr to operate a machine for you and it's parked in the middle of a field somewhere waiting for the parked regen to complete.
Like you I'm hanging onto my 2015 M59TLB without the DEF/DPF fun.
Seems like we are getting to the point it's better to rent equipment and let the rental company deal with the BS issues of keeping the equipment running. This way I just make a call and have a new machine ready for me by the next morning when the other one goes down and I only pay for the hours I use.