I think the hoses on the window was a shared blame. I told them to use the length of hose I had ordered on the cylinder. They treated this like an independant project- 1st extend/move the lines, then connect up the sidelink. They used 3/8" hose, which is overkill for TnT. It never dawned on me that they would use the plate from the loader to hold the female QCs, and they never asked.
I also think there was a limited inventory of hydraulic pieces problem. They probably have a subset of all the fittings that meets their needs. Finally, no one will think through a project on your tractor better than you.
And like any project, once you're done you know how you'd really like to do it.
I'd not thought about the check valves causing the slingshot effect, I think you're right on the money. I think if your using check valves you'll definitely want the needle valve to compensate for that. When grading stuff, you're right that you are constantly adjusting. When mowing, it's nice to have things just stay put. Trade offs, trade offs. But the side link is good to go now hydraulically speaking. Still thinking of milling a slot in it and adding metal strips so I can get the full 3PH float function back...
I'm thinking of getting a "regular" toplink cylinder so I can float it. There are a few placing mowing where that would be nice, and better still with a little 3PH float added in. I can see all the parts on the Surplus Center site. Try that for a bit and then decide if I want to keep the check valve toplink or sell it. And so it goes, each project sows the seeds of the next project.
Pete