UPDATE!
So, my dad has run the gamut on this rig, I think he may have lost a little hair over this one. He rebuilt the piston and noticed a SLIGHT improvement. He took a chance and honed the cylinder. There was an improvement, but it did not cure the problem. It did stop the settling of the hitch that has been going on for a few years.
He cleaned the pressure valves and replaced every o-ring he came to in that section of the tractor. He inspected the 3pt control valve. Nothing.
He had the local Deere shop stumped. Their last recommendation was toasted seals on the charge pump.
So, he just replaced a 35.00 chunk of hose on the return from his added spool valves, which is not a new addition. At the same time, he also found that the filter was loose, though not leaking. He had changed it last about a month ago, just prior to this issue, without removing the MMM.
PROBLEM SOLVED. Either the filter or hose was sucking air. The filter leaked no oil until yesterday and the line just stayed wet.
Back when this started, he thought the oil looked frothy. I asked him where he was sucking air and he said there was no place it could happen.
The old man is pretty happy right now, despite wasting a LOT of labor when he could have been finishing roadsides or starting the fall tilling, he had a relatively cheap fix!