Well, that's old school. Not saying you are wrong. I was raised the old school way. Heck I ran with scissors, drank from a garden hose, and talked to strangers, and worked like a mule most of my life.
But today's kids see the world differently. Most of them view hard labor as something to avoid. I saw it as way to make lots of money but todays kids have money making opportunities we never dreamed of. They buy and sell stuff on the internet. They deliver people and things with their own car. And they minimize their expenses for housing and food by living at home. It's a different world today, we have to realize our values are not their values. I didn't raise any kids so I'm not shouldering any of the blame