I live in Connecticut,we probably have the widest swing in humidity, in the summer it can get so bad that water droplets form on the floor joists and drip (in house basements) on the floor, hardwood floors get so tight they can buckle, you must use dehumidifiers or a/c's. In the winter it gets so dry we have to put wet towels on the radiators to put some moisture back in the air, the hard wood floors get 1/8 gaps in some places
Regarding shop type buildings, I had a 50x60 with 18ft. ceiling, I swear I saw clouds forming in there under certain extreme weather conditions, my steel top tables, vises,anvils etc. would have standing water on them when the warm wet air met cool hard surfaces (steel first but could affect wood also)
Suggestions; though its hard for me to understand winter humidity, first of all what Cris mentioned about the ceiling and the vented space above would be the best solution but that is not always practical in a shop type building where a high ceiling is needed. I would suggest a couple of dehumidifiers for your size space, keep the doors closed as much as possible, I don't think super heating it once a month would work, the oil filled heaters would help some and would keep it warm but electric heaters even set low can get expensive (I have a 5000 watt heater in a 600 sq. ft. building set at 40 degrees and it costs over $100. a month), the dehumidifiers would take gallons of water out of the air every day, that's what they are made for and don't use as much electricity.
You want to keep the leaks out of course but a few drips wil not add much to the overall humidity problem, insulate as you can afford to, it is the best way to create a stable enviroment.
Good luck John B.