Sounds like you might have 2 different 'situations' going on.
The silver, 30A 12v item you described sounds like a bi-metal, self resetting circuit breaker. I am not "up to speed" on your particular model tractor, but my DK45 requires a 60A, slow blow fuse in that position. I would imagine that just the Glow Plugs alone would draw 30 amps, or more.
I am sure someone with direct knowledge of the LK3054 model will let us know what amperage fuse is required. That fuse carries all the electrical current of the tractor (except the starter) so it is quite important to have the correct fuse installed - it also PROTECTS your entire electrical system, which makes it VERY important to have the correct fuse installed.
As far as the starter arcing, but not spinning. Without being there in person, it is very hard to say for sure, but if your jumper cables are actually "booster cables", they will not carry enough current to operate a starter. If they are actually "jumper cables", they will typically work, but they will truly ARC as you connect them. When they first start to spark, most people immediately release the clamp, so it never actually makes full contact. If your cables are copper (NOT aluminum), and have very stiff, heavy clamps (and you actually WANT to try this) then make the connections as you described, with the last connection being to the starter housing (very important!). Usually the bolt flange of the housing gives the best connection. You have to commit to completely releasing the clamp, as 'partially' making a connection is the worst you could do (you will be "arc welding" with jumper cables!!) ALSO, keep the battery & the starter as far apart as the cables will allow, as batteries do give off hydrogen gas as they charge/discharge. ALSO, if/when the starter does spin, it will "jump" quite dramatically; it would be best to have a second set of hands to hold it (if you have ever "snuck" upon, and grabbed an armadillo,,,,same sensation!)
It really would be best to take it to someone with experience!