Wow, great feedback everyone, I appreciate the input. :thumbsup:
Stopped by a different dealer today and talked to them about the remotes. They kind of gave me sticker shock. They told me the remote for the grapple would be $1200 and the rear remotes would be $1100 each. All I could see was $3400 to $4500 flying away.

So when I got home this evening I looked on the Kubota build tool. It shos a cost of $903 for the third function valve kit for the FEL. Also shows that if I add 2 double acting and one detent it would run $2008. That would be $2900 for the front and three rear vs the $4500 they told me. I'm guessing the salesman just got mixed up somewhere along the line. At least I hope so. I am going to check another dealer tomorrow.
Fallon - I have looked at the Fit Rite Hydraulics site and will definitely consider some of their products. The long wait is the hard part for me. That 8' flail I'm sure will put the load to it once in a while. Not sure what I will do on the radio, the dealer said they would give me a deal, we will see. Appreciate the info you provided. On your other comment, looks like you get after it. Looks like a great job on the drive!
Jeff9366 - I wondered about the weight the cab added. I will not be doing much ground engagement on a regular basis. I think what I will do is use a product everyone here in my part of Texas keeps recommending, MultiSeal. Seems everythign here will either bite you or has nasty thorns. It is supposed to solve the thorn issue and prevent flats while adding some weight. Runs about $300 and I don't like worrying about flats or dodging thorns. As far as gates all of mine are 16' minimum and will be on future fencing I have to do, so no problem there. Also flat as a table top pretty much so not to worried about stability. On your other post about the BH as counter weight. The property is pretty open and going to get more so if I buy this unit. The BH is my default 3 point implement right now so may just try running that way for a while.
TripleR - Yes, the tiller is down the road for sure. Would be nice for the garden and food plots here and possibly one other property which would require trailering. I am thinking 2 remote floats and one detent but am not sure I fully understand the advantages of each one. Need to do some more research in that area.
BRMyers - What BH is that on yours in the photo? I am considering buying a heavier unit with the tractor if I pull the trigger and selling my cheap one with the 950. I saw some other photos you posted. Very nice to see one working. The Massey I believe I saw in one of them reminded me of one of the tractors we had when I was growing up. Dad bought a 165 and we thought we had it made. The high-low range on it kind of reminds me of the high-low on the Kubota.
mikescruggs - I considered both larger and smaller but do think this would be the right size. Our ground is fairly open other than some mesquite and huisache brush. Also some big holly bushes and a few other trees. Mainly we are looking to get rid of most of the huisache don't mind the rest. Will run the R4 and if it is wet the tractor will be staying in the barn. The bottom falls out when it rains. Nothing I have to do, everything is more on the want to do list.
jjp8182 - If I pull the trigger on this I may do three rear valves. Depends partially at least on where the pricing comes in. The wife says she is good with this but there is probably a limit I would just as soon not find. As far as the hydraulics I'm not sure what I will want down the road. Not much experience with using hydraulics on the rear but have used a lot of different pto stuff. My son helped me set some post and brought along a hydraulic tamper, that thing was awesome! I have looked at the heavy hitch and it does have a place on the wish list though it may be down a ways right now.
Foggy1111 - I looked at the Pats stuff and wondered if that might not be the case. I don't expect to be swapping units all that often so it might be a good way to go. You have a nice selection of implements there. I need to add cultipacker to my list of watch for items on craigslist, be great for food plots.
Thanks to all, keep the ideas coming!