Retirement was kind of a surprise for me. I had my own business with 3 employees, and we were thriving. Then, all within the same short time period, one quit, one was disabled with shoulder surgery and one died. Since I had more or less "invented" my business, and the 4 of us had felt our way until we knew how to do what we were doing, I couldn't just hire someone -- there is no one with "experience". So, reluctantly, I closed up.
I could have planned better - someone mentioned health insurance - I had no Cobra, and my wife is also self employeed, so we pay through the nose for individual coverage. When we can find it -- we've already had two companies quit offering the coverage in Florida, and are now searching for yet another, at a cost of over $1,200 per month for catastraphic coverage only! Just have to hang on for 2 more years until we qualify for Medicare, which, the way things are going, will probably also disappear by the time we get there.
I was a bit depressed about the whole thing until my wife suggested we buy the acreage next to our daughter and build a new house and shop. I had plenty to do, but it was all negative - selling off inventory, preparing to sell the commercial property, etc. I still have problems with that side of it, but getting out to Okeechobee and working on the new place helps a lot. Plus, it didn't take long to see that I was going to need a tractor, and that led me to this place, and all the new "friends" - which has become a nice thing.
When the new shop is built, I may dabble back into what I was doing before, "un-retiring" myself a little, but without employees. My son and I also set aside our road racing activities a few years ago to concentrate on business, and I'm looking forward to getting back into that, again -- I build the car, and he drives it -- once the shop is done. In the meantime, like everyone else, I find there aren't enough hours in the day.
I feel sorry for the folks who retire with nothing to do -- my observation is that they die earlier.
I'm really a lot more upbeat than this sounds -- I'm just still having a little trouble describing myself as retired.