mbrule
Gold Member
Sorry for your loss....
After reading your posts and having my own experience with pet loss that somewhat mimmics yours.....It seems like you've got your mind around it and I salute you for that, sincerely. You could help a lot of people with that mindset, celebrating the life rather than mourning the loss.Thanks for the support. :thumbsup:
When we get them we know this day will come. One of the many services our pets give us, is to remind us of our own mortality.
Last fall when she could no longer accompany me into the woods, I asked that we be allowed to spend one more Christmas together. My prayer was answered with a beatiful December day, and she was getting around well; she spent much of the day laying outside in the sun and we took our last walk on the 1/2 mile loop through my property. I believe this was my reward for the care I've given her over the years.
This was my first dog, I got her at a bad time in my life and she was the best thing I could have done for myself. I really thought she would leave a big hole when she was gone...
The first night the house was empty. I woke up the next morning thinking about the way she had been acting the last few weeks; she was in pain and to keep her alive much longer would have been selfish and cruel. Her only enjoyment was the short walks we were able to take together...Realising this, somehow that hole isn't there for me.
I expect to have another dog by fall. However, right now though I have other priorities.