" I use the air handler fan to circulate sometimes, but i like it in the low 60s in the bedroom to sleep comfortably."
That's what we do, run the air handler. If we have a cold snap that lasts more than a couple of days, we'll put a fan in the hallway by the farthest bedroom, blowing towards the living room where the wood stove is. It helps mix the air up.
"Is this the huge buck stove with like a 4.5 sqft box?"
Yes, it's the "huge" one. The local installation company would only install it using an 8" stainless steel liner. Our insurance did not go down, but the carrier approved the install and wrote the policy for "solid fuel" heat source. The firebox is 4.4 cubic foot (but who's counting

). The stove doesn't look so big in the hearth, but it's deep @ over 28". The hearth and all is pretty big, the opening the stove fit in is 3' x 2 1/2'. We needed the 91 stove for the scale of the fireplace, and also the BTU output. I cut wood to about 18" - 20", split it where the tree is felled, store under an open shed, keep about a weeks worth on the back patio, and move a couple of days worth inside as needed. I guess the moving about keeps the loose stuff knocked off. Also bump the pieces before bringing them inside. Believe it or not, picture posted in my other post is about 2 days worth. We'll burn 3 stacks about 35' long x 6' high. Mostly oak and hickory. Since the tornado in Joplin, I've cut maple, hackberry, mulberry, and elm. Probably start burning some of that about February.