Good points, IMO. I'll bet your Dad feels terrible that you now don't trust him to run your 2230.
I don't loan my tractor for others to use (and/or abuse) but certainly wish my father was still around to let him use my tractor. Those days are gone, and tip over or not, as long as he wouldn't be hurt, I'd still would love for him to be around to drive my tractor. /forums/images/graemlins/wink.gif
I have an old neighbor, who still is taking care of the old farmstead. He has a bad heart, shouldn't be driving, and almost died this winter due to a very weak heart. He has made it out every day to his farm to mow lawn and till and plant a small garden. Don't ask me how he does it, but it's difficult. Not long ago, we were pulling out steel posts to remove a fence, and he was having trouble throwing the chain around the posts. So I asked him to run the tractor. It had been years since he was on one bigger than the lawn tractor. But he adapted to using the bucket and the hydro tranny quite well, and really enjoyed the opportunity to use the easy way to pull posts.
Sounds like you need the proper ballast on the 3pt for the load in the FEL. /forums/images/graemlins/tongue.gif