</font><font color="blue" class="small">( We're heroes to people until they get a ticket...and then it's our fault. )</font>
Gary,
For many years (+ 15), I taught Defensive Driving classes for professional bus drivers and other government employees. We called them Mass Transit Surface Vehicle Operators , but that's a whole different story.
Anyway, at some point during the 8 hour class, we'd always discuss the mental and emotional aspects of driving. I'd ask what was the single most emotionally upsetting thing that could happen when a person was driving. Invariably, someone would answer with "Getting a ticket!" I'd ask why that was upsetting, and they would say something about being embarrased, or making them later than they already were, or the expense associated with the ticket. I would then ask them, "Aren't you really upset because you got caught breaking the law, and you know you were guilty?" I would then go on and suggest that rather than getting outwardly upset at the officer, why not thank the officer? Can you guess the kind of reaction I'd get then!? /forums/images/graemlins/crazy.gif
After the students calmed down, I would suggest to them that there was very real possibility that the officer just saved their life, or possibly someone else's. Wasn't that worth thanking the officer for? The officer is just doing their job, and because of that, made things a whole lot safer for everyone. /forums/images/graemlins/smirk.gif
So even if no one else wants to say it, I will. Thank you and ALL law enforcement officers for making my and my families lives a lot safer. Your efforts really ARE appreciated! /forums/images/graemlins/wink.gif /forums/images/graemlins/laugh.gif