<font color="blue"> I think the only way to fix this right is the same way that one dealer did with the ugly angle iron. </font>
I think a fairly simple fix would involve a slight re-design. Instead of running the hoses through the inside of a thin-wall cross brace, it strikes me that the hoses could be run along the surface of a heavier wall cross brace. So if it was me, I'd cut the cross brace out, install a thicker wall version of one that did not have the access panel, and plumb hydraulic pipe across there, or a less expensive answer would be to run hose across the exterior, but still do the repair by inserting a thicker wall brace in place of the current one.
Attached is a photo of a Montana tractor's loader. It is also a curved arm loader, it has the solid cross brace (no access panel) and hose mounted to the exterior. By eliminating the access panel, and eliminating the 2 holes for the hose to enter on one side and exit on the other side, you get more rigidty and less flex. There is no doubt in my mind that flex is causing the stress cracks.
Very similar to the Montana design, Case and New Holland both have the solid cross brace, but use pipe instead of hose. No doubt the Kioti looks neater with the hoses running inside, but the access panel cutout is the weakpoint and allowing flex. By the way in the attached photo you will see a second, lower mounted, cross brace, that is the loader stand that is folded up, it doesn't add too much rigidity to the loader. The Case and New Holland curved arms loaders also have a very similar folding loader stand; I would not suggest they increase rigidity much either.