Been around cattle and other livestock all my life. "reading" the animal is key. IMHO, doesn't matter as to gender. Bulls just generally weigh more and have a reputation. Watch out for a range cow with new born calf!
Most cattle will always give you respect without you doing anything. Others, given pause in the form of a stick or pitchfork, will give you respect and accede to your directives. This assumes you know how to work cattle.
Very, very occasionally one will have a certain look in the eye, I can't define it but I know it when I see it, and is willing to run over you regardless of what kind of persuasive tool you may be wielding. Some of it has to do with running at you with speed, ignoring the stick/pitchfork until hit and by then momentum is sufficient to carry thru/over you even if the animal wanted to stop and the animal continues on because you are now not in its way. In these animals, the flight/fight response has somehow merged into a response that has no "run away" component but is all "run over/fight thru to get away." I can detect this in a weaned calf....best to sell it immediately and not let it get larger than your fences and pens can hold.