The disparity in pricing is amazing to me. I am working on a 1,500 sq. ft. addition to our house (doing all the work myself) and it is going to finish out at about $22-$25 per sq. ft. A friend at work got quotes for having a house built (about 2,000 sq. ft. and the quotes averaged $91 per sq. ft. I know this isn't the same as pole barns, but there is obviously quite a premium for having someone else do the building for you.
I also find it interesting that as we have been going through this process, we are comparing to the costs for the house that we built between 2004 to 2007. Almost every material that we are buying now (lumber, sheet goods, insulation, drywall) is cheaper by 10% to 50% (example: 2x10 floor joists were about $15 each when we bought them for the first house; just under $10 for them now). The only items that have gone up have been concrete by a few dollars per yard and asphalt shingles. It seems that now is a good time to be building, due to relatively lower material costs, at least in my neck of the woods.
Good luck and take care.
I also find it interesting that as we have been going through this process, we are comparing to the costs for the house that we built between 2004 to 2007. Almost every material that we are buying now (lumber, sheet goods, insulation, drywall) is cheaper by 10% to 50% (example: 2x10 floor joists were about $15 each when we bought them for the first house; just under $10 for them now). The only items that have gone up have been concrete by a few dollars per yard and asphalt shingles. It seems that now is a good time to be building, due to relatively lower material costs, at least in my neck of the woods.
Good luck and take care.