So, just about everybody wants to bring in the BIG GUNS? Why is that? Is there no initative here? So you've got 5 grand thrown out somewhere & 'wife' is not giving any more info out? I don't see enough details here, or is it just the spelling? Just a thought, but how about discussing the matter with the executor of the estate, which would be the person in charge of the affairs of the deceased, asking calmly (and it's important to remain calm here) about the specifics of the transaction & where the currency has ended up at. If your really getting nothing but a runaround after a week of investigating, then what is the maximum small claims allows for? Some states have increased this to $5K, others may be as little as $2K. But if it is anywhere near $4K, I would consider filing in that manner. I've been down a road with attorney fee's, paid a retainer up front of $2100. All it got me was the defendant filing bankruptcy after only paying out $600 from a $17,000 lawsuit, then skipping out on further payments to the bankruptcy court. No justice in that, and nothing left over from the retainer.