Thanks everyone, I am putting this to rest for myself - so I can get on with enjoying my new tractor and get some work done. I like the tractor and others here have confirmed what I was seeking, that it is normal for an HST to not spin tires all the time. Knowing that I can feel assured that the tractor is "normal". Hopefully as others mentioned it will gain power while breaking in and I will ask my dealer about the relief valve setting.
I love the tractor and have gotten a lot done. The soil I called "fairly compact" would be undisturbed as mentioned by IslandTractor so again I just wanted the assurance that this is to be expected. Obviously there are tradeoffs with the HST and Gear type transmissions, but I have found the HST indispensable in working with the FEL and can't imagine having to grab the column every time I wanted to change direction.
Initially I panicked a bit when the tractor first arrived but after the last 5 or 6 hours on it, it has really gained my respect that it can do what I want.... would be nice though if Kioti would make a super low range for HST for those times you just need a little more.