Tom,
</font><font color="blue" class="small">( Will Mrs. Kelvin ever be drivin' this rig?)</font>
Back in the mid 1980s I taught my wife how to drive my old 2wd truck with manual transmission (no granny gear). She had to drive that truck back-and-forth to work for about a month, and the drive to work included at least one stop sign on a steep hill. She was pretty proficient at driving that truck when that month was up, but didn't try to drive the truck again until 8 years or so later, and had COMPLETELY forgotten everything about how to drive that truck (so much for the "riding the bicycle theory").
</font><font color="blue" class="small">( What are her "input parameters" on the trannie? )</font>
Her first priority was for me to get what I would be happy with, but she preferred the automatic. This truck is huge, and I think the size will be as much of a deterrent as the manual transmission is. She has no problem mowing with the hydrostat Kubota (which is the main reason I two: "his-n-hers") so I suspect that she'll eventually start driving this truck, especially if we take a trip in it.
</font><font color="blue" class="small">( Some ladies get excited pushin' that lever back and forth and others think it makes drivin' too complicated. )</font>
I had gotten rid of the old truck with manual transmission when my daughter started driving. She has been driving several years now and has always expressed a strong desire to know how to drive a stick-shift, but I had nothing to teach her on. My wife was very hesitant to operate the tractor until she saw my daughter operating it, then she HAD to be taught how. I expect that if my wife does not try to drive this new truck initially, she will after she sees my daughter driving it.
Kelvin