Good Morning Bmac,
I hate Monday morning quarterbacking, and even worse, people that just through out random comments without anything useful or constructive. Unfortunately, this is what I'm about to do. /forums/images/graemlins/blush.gif
When I saw your picture of the exterior of you home, I thought is was just primed and not painted yet. The overall look of the house is very stark. You got some great features and detail, but the color and texture all blend together to create a solid mass. /forums/images/graemlins/frown.gif
The shutters will soften it a little and give you some warmth, but it's a very minor change that doesn't solve what I see as a problem.
Landscaping will also soften it up quite a bit, but again, I think it's just gonna soften the edges some. Plants can make a great home fantastic, but they are only icing on the cake. The cake needs to be finished before you start adding decorations to it.
What I think, and again, I hate saying this because it's not my home or my dream, so it's not my place, but I'm hopeful that maybe you see the same thing and are also looking for some ideas. The house is a giant WHITE focal point out in a country setting. With the trees and nature all around it, the home jumps out at you, but doesn't show off it's features.
You need to take advantage or your archetecture!! It's too late for brick or stone, but you can add some color and totally change your overall look entirely. I'm not a designer, nor do I have the ability to tell you what will work. Sometimes you have to bring in outside help or just start experimenting.
Just to continue sticking my foot in my mouth, I'm gonna suggest you paint the colums a warm dark color to bring your eye into the porch. The side wings might look less impossing if they were a lighter color than the main body of the house and the dormers might be another color to accent them. Or just the oposite. I really don't know. Again, sorry.
Shutters and what style of shutter isn't something I'd even be thinking about right now.
I do apologize for being so blunt. You have an amazing home. The interior of you home is at the very top of a high end home. The materials and finish are first class. But the exterior just doesn't have the same WOW factor, or curb apeal. To me, you home looks unfinished. /forums/images/graemlins/frown.gif
Eddie