Eddie,
<font color="blue"> Your house is just fine the way it is and I'll stop butting in with ways to change it. </font>
If you stop butting in, I stop posting pictures. /forums/images/graemlins/grin.gif
I put this project up for discussion and feedback. Its entirely understandable if someone finds it unesthetic. Very subjective call. It has the elements I was going for, but the total look is just not there for me. Its just little things that are hard to explain. I certainly don't hate it but I don't get the warm fuzzies when I drive up either.
You know, something just struck me (lot literally). We've been having a lengthy discussion and sharing our thoughts (sometimes worrying that our comments might come across as rude) about the most insignificant part of this whole project. I'm whining about proportions. Eddie doesn't like the whiteness. Do I add shutters? Is it a farmhouse or plantation style home? The bottom line is that it is just a house. White, brown, black, green - really doesn't matter. Ultimately, its just a shelter. Its far nicer than I deserve and I am suddenly embarrassed that I may be coming across as unappreciative of this home we are about to move in to.
And the operative word here is "home", not "house". It will be a place for our family to live and love one another. A place where we can celebrate our victories in life and bandage scraped knees. Where my wife and I can try to teach our children responsibility and where they can teach us a little humility. Where friends will feel welcome. A place where my wife and I can continually work to strengthen our marriage. Where my kids can play. A place for me to go at the end of the day for hugs. A place for fun and a place to rest. This is what a home is to me. And I already have one. We're just changing addresses and phone numbers (ok, and mortgage payments /forums/images/graemlins/grin.gif).
But, please do continue the feedback, positive or negative. I appreciate the time everyone has invested in the sharing of their ideas. Many have been very helpful. As I said early on in the construction process - I don't have a clue about building a house. But, thanks to you folks, I know alot more now than I did when we started. We are at the point in the process where there isn't much opportunity for change, either in our timeline to completion or in the budget. So, please don't suggest we move a wall or anything. /forums/images/graemlins/grin.gif