I also wouldn't throw too much hydraulic tech time/money at it. A stock replacement pump is between $179-$189 depending on the engine you have($230 for a higher output upgrade pump) on Affordables website
https://affordabletractorsalesco.co...ategory=Hydraulic Pumps&category=Parts Center.
When a hydraulic pump costs you $5K+, yes, a little tech time for a flow study may be justified before swapping a pump. At this level, some educated pressure analysis is usually sufficient
Like quicksand mentioned, the easiest way to squelch a pump output is to starve it's input for oil. So if you are sure you are not sucking air and the suction strainer in the sump(or in the suction line in later models) is not clogged. Another way to fairly easilly test the suction line is to disconnect it at the pump, put a bucket under it and apply a little air pressure to the vent port on the reservoir fill plug. The suction port on the pump an a 284 is lower than the fluid level in the reservoir, so the fluid should start to flow as soon as you crack the pump suction fitting, and if left to set and drain should easilly drain most of the reservoir. Adding a little air to the vent port and the fluid should flow rather quickly...
I believe your troubleshooting is sound(same lower than relief pressure from 2 different loads). From the info you provided, i think it is your pump.
You said it had a suction side leak when you got it? It could have been that it was sucking air a long time. Air going thru a hydraulic pump causes cavitation and added noise. The cavitation will cause premature wear and ultimate leakback on a hydraulic pump. It also causes them to make a significant ammount of added noise under load compared to a pump that isn't pumping air along with the fluid, which is a giveaway when you know what to listen for. It helps to have another pump around to compare to... "Hey how come that one is so much noisier" Your difficulty reaching rated output pressure with no flow/noise thru the relief valves is symptomatic of a warn out pump...