Roy,
I like the 3520 with the eHydro. The one I found has the power reverser trans.
The 3038e can be run without having weight in the seat. According to them, you place the machine in neutral, set the parking brake (do not sit in the seat) and start the machine. The PTO will work and you don't have any weight in the seat.
Using Rear PTO
NOTE: The Rear PTO is only operational with the operator on the seat.
Engaging Rear PTO
1. Sit on operator’s seat.
2. Stop machine motion, remove foot from forward and reverse travel pedals.
NOTE: The starter will not crank if the PTO knob is pulled to the engaged/on position. If the operator leaves the seat with the engine running and the PTO engaged, the safety interlock system will stop the engine.
3. Reduce throttle setting to 1500 rpm.
4. Pull the PTO knob to the engaged/on position to engage the rear PTO.
5. Adjust the hand throttle lever forward to the desired speed for implement used.
NOTE: The PTO icon on the tachometer indicates the correct engine rpm for a standard 540 PTO .
Disengaging Rear PTO
1. Adjust engine rpm to low idle speed.
2. Push the PTO knob to the disengaged/off position to disengage the rear PTO.
There are actually other dealers much closer than 80-100mi from Springfield (I'm in stafford, VA as I type this). There is a NH/Kioti dealer in Frederick, a Kubota dealer in Fredericksburg, an LS dealer in Culpeper, a Case/IH dealer near Leesburg, etc....none terribly far away.
You are really going to do some heavy work to start with ! Clearing 5 acres ? Different machines for different jobs . The John Deere 3038 or 3520 are good tractors, for cutting pasture or yard or general farm use, I have a 253 mf 4 wheel drive .4 in 1 bucket loader attached 50 hp or better ,it has help clear off some lots , I have been and still are a heavy equipment operator , for over 40 years ,The 3520 I believe can handle a backhoe attachment , not heavy duty and costly. With the 3520 and the 5 ton truck , if you take your time , you can clear the 5 acres, if you have never done any clearing before you will learn just take your time . If you get bit by the equipment bug , it is a life long disease , not a bad thing to have. Best of luck!!!! Keep on Tractoring!!!!!!