This link is VERY handy
www.marksrv.com/wiring.htm
Go to Napa, Checkers, or Autozone. Or, better yet, go to a trailer sales/repair place.
You might also check with Ford; they might have had an add-on harness.
For my old '89 F250, I bought the 7-wire adapter that was mentioned previously. It had the 7-wire receptacl. Out of that, came a short harness with the 4-wire flat connector. It also had three other wires coming out of it; one for brakes, one for 12v, and one for back-up lights.
The 4-wire was an easy connection.
For backup lights, I intersected one of the wires going up to the back-up lights.
For 12v, I used a Ford style starter selenoid, mounted next to the battery. One wire went from the battery to one pole of the selenoid, with a 20A circuit breaker in line. From the other side of the soleniod, I ran a wire to the back of the truck(10 gauge) and hooked it to the 7-wire trailer receptacle. Another wire was run from the ignition to the selenoid activation terminal. This way, my battery in the camper charged when the truck was running, but was isolated when the ignition was off. That way I never ran down the truck starting battery...
The brakes had a bit more to them. Most controller have only four wires. One wire ran from the controller, which mounted under the dash, out to the back of the truck and is connected to the 7-wire receptacle. A second wire was connected to the wire that comes off the break switch, under the dash. The power line to the controller ran direct to the battery, with a breaker placed in line near the battery. The ground wire connected to chassis/body ground.
I like the 7-wire receptacle. I can connect anything to my truck(my current Dodge has the 7-wire). I had my old camper set up to connect to it. My horse trailer had backup lights, and a charge line running to the trailer break "break-away" battery.
It is easier to have all bases covered, and then adapt out to 4-wire flat, 4-wire round, or 6-wire round, than it is to try and adapt up from one of those.