Thanks folks, I really did luck out, and it surprised the heck outta me. I guess mentioning tractors for sale for the past four years finally paid off.
I picked up a 5' rear blade off a coworker for use over the winter to maintain the driveway, which, after my first attempt, is going to take a lot more practice. This is my first time dealing with anything with a 3 point hitch, so I just hooked up the rear blade and used it as was. Needless to say, after I scraped up quite a bit of gravel, I youtubed it, and ended up shortening the lifting arm, and lengthened the top link and now it sits a little more straight and I think will be a lot more better resulting in less gravel scraping.
I really appreciate the suggestions on attachments and attachment sizing.
I love the functionality of a grapple, but the cost for a new one kinda puts a damper on the idea of that purchase anytime in the near future. Maybe a set of adjustable quick attach forks (if there is such a thing) will be something a little more budget friendly and I can just scoop under the brush, and wrap a chain or rope around it to move it across the field to dump it. If they are adjustable, it would also allow for me to move them closer together to use it to lift rocks and logs out and move them as well.
I have browsed ratchet rake and tooth bar bucket attachments and they both look great with different purposes for each. When checking out the ratchet rake, I came across the rip and dig, which also looks great and provides much more digging ability.
I have a JD D140 mower, so I won't be using the tractor for fine lawn mowing, strictly bush hog the back field and trails, so that's one less attachment I have to worry about purchasing.