DocHeb, maybe I can provide partial answers. Of course, if you just figure 4 pounds per gallon, you'll be close enough. Have you ever looked at the data plate, or information, on those propane cylinders? I've never understood why people come up with "specialized" terminology instead of using plain English, but the data plate (actually not a plate, but stamped on the cylinder or collar) lists the tare weight (T.W.) of the empty cylinder (empty weight, in other words). Then it lists the water capacity (W.C.) in pounds - don't ask me why - who's ever going to put water in it? So you can multiply the water capacity by 0.42 and determine the propane capacity. Next you can add the propane capacity weight and the tare weight and know what a properly filled cylinder will weigh.
Propane is supposedly 91,547 BTUs per gallon (compared to approx. 120,000 BTUs for gasoline) and, in its vapor state, approximately 2,516 BTUs per cubic foot (compared to 1,040 for natural gas).
And I don't know anything about Therms.
Bird