Thanks.
Having thought of payday loans in a negative light and still do but my recent experience with a person in the payday loan trap was an eye opener. I like others take stupid risks with equipment without thinking or being to lazy to use reverse, etc. The rolling of the tractor and it crushing himself without anyone knowing about it for a while (something that could happen to many of us) had such profound effect on this guy's wife and young teenage daughter and they were totally unprepared to face the financial decisions in front of them. In this case the in-laws living on either side of their house decided to take over in a negative way.
Clearly from this mess that had been running for five years post the tractor death could have be less negative with proper financial planning and training. I think having a trusted financial planner involved with our family business prior to our death is a MUST after seeing how family can abuse family when $$$ is involved. Enough emotional stress/abuse can and often does lead to bad financial decisions. A husband, wife and children need to have a plan in place that is at least a near term protection of assets from people that prey on those ill prepared to manage an estate after an unexpected dead like an tractor, etc accident. Clearly there are some claiming to be helping that may act in a manner harmful to those we may leave behind.
Again if you know of someone you care about using payday loans, over draft protection (unsecured loan type), etc try to get them with some planner that can talk straight. Sometimes those who have lost the financial leader of the household just need to be encouraged. Often just getting them with the right CPA is a good start. Once a plan can be put in place for them to get back on their feet they may be OK. While some may have to take bankruptcy many others just need to learn how to manage to get expenses less than income which may be fixed.
This may be selling the farm and getting into a home with less monthly living costs associated with it. As many of us who have been or currently in financial jams learn there usually are acceptable options if we can chill and focus. This is where the right financial adviser can be CHEAP in the long run.
I now know good people in a bad situation may and do from time to time use Payday loans and the like just because they do not see another option because of that ad or sign stating 'we will get you the money you need today NOW'. Years ago in the Navy there were those on Friday wanted a $5 loan and would repay $10 on payday. They are easy targets for Payday loans by habit often.
It is not for me but I do not see a legal payday loan business as evil or the like but I do see the use of such loans should be viewed as a cry for help from family and friends and yes I know many do not agree with me on that point. While death may not be at hand for many of us BUT learning how to live with increase costs and decreasing income is a reality that most of us will or are facing in these financial times. Who knows he or she will not leave family behind that may feel the need to go for a Payday loan some day?
Financial train wrecks do happen more often than we may realize.