Fuddy1952
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I don't believe he told every patient this. Here's why. Dad had thyroid cancer from x-ray treatments for a sore throat as a child.
Years later (1962) he felt a lump and ran low grade temperature. Grandfather next door was a doctor, recommended local surgeon which he did. Then Grandad recommended Sloan-Kettering to be sure. That surgeon found it had spread (radical surgery...poor Dad, removed some arm muscles, radical neck & chest work).
There was a lady there, same age, same exact condition, surgeon said "she won't make it" and she didn't.
Dad had tremendous will power, even at home started splitting wood! Had to use "good" arm until gradually gaining some use.
I know what you're saying, doctors have to be positive with patients.
Years later (1962) he felt a lump and ran low grade temperature. Grandfather next door was a doctor, recommended local surgeon which he did. Then Grandad recommended Sloan-Kettering to be sure. That surgeon found it had spread (radical surgery...poor Dad, removed some arm muscles, radical neck & chest work).
There was a lady there, same age, same exact condition, surgeon said "she won't make it" and she didn't.
Dad had tremendous will power, even at home started splitting wood! Had to use "good" arm until gradually gaining some use.
I know what you're saying, doctors have to be positive with patients.