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Just dealt with the same issues - I'm in Southeast Mass -and bought a
b3030 - haven't even received it yet! From Advice on here, and various other places, I ended up with the following. Bear in mind I will be mowing with it, and have hilly / woody property.
Kubota
b3030 hst w/r4 tires - all loaded. Didn't notice any problems with this on grass when test driving.
HD alternator, 2 work lights, and a 12v outlet (almost always useful...)
Loader with quick attach setup and 66" bucket (dealer through that in - heavier duty) with chain hooks and toothbar.
Woods 60 brush hog - I have a lot of woods to mow
60 mid mount mower - evidently the 72 will scalp on the hills. I'd have rather gotten the 72
Woods BH80x with thumb - thumb was reasonable, and seems incredibly useful
Woods 60 rototiller
Bradco pallet forks - surprisingly useful. Never would have guessed
Rear remotes, with hoses plumbed to the front - I plan on buying the cheap millonzi grapple other people on here have loved.
I'm planning on buying a box blade, and landscape rake from Tractor supply in CT. Their quality seemed fine for my use, and I'm less worried when its just metal with no gears involved