Undisturbed soil is going to be the best at shedding water and have the highest load bearing ability. Once you dig that soil, everything changes. Getting it compacted to being as solid as it was before you started digging is impossible. When I worked construction in CA, we had to get it to 98 percent to pass inspection before anybody could build on it. That meant getting the moisture level perfect and vibrating it in lifts with heavy equipment.
You will never get the soil in a ditch or even around the post close to what the soil was before you started digging no matter what you use or how long you work at it. Not a criticism, it's just a part of building and something that has to be dealt with. With just dirt in the hole, compacted as good as you can get it, you will still get more moisture in that hole then the surrounding soil.
Adding rock to that hole now allows it to hold even more water. Rock mixed with soil means lower compaction and more voids for moisture. You are in fact creating a place to hold water. More rock, the more moisture you will have in there. This means less strength on the post, greater opportunity for rot and an attraction for termites.
Overbuilding is one thing, over engineering is another thing. I feel your trench idea is over engineering a simple method of building that has been proven to be very effective just the way it is.
Eddie