MossRoad
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Also, when we were engaged after 6 years of dating (I'm slow to make decisions), we had to take a marriageability comparison test with the priest at the church. You go in and answer questions in topics like religion, finance, employment, family and children, gear or hydro, turf tires or R4, stuff like that. There were 6 topics. You go off to separate rooms and fill in the little circles with a #2 pencil. Come back in a week, and go over the answers with the priest.
So we go back the next week and sit down to go over the results. The priest looks at the results. Looks at us. Looks at the results again.... in three of the subjects we are 95% compatible! That's great!!!! In the other three subjects, we are 95% incompatible! Our hearts sank.
So the priest looks at us and says "About 50% of marriages end in divorce. So that means about 50% of them don't. You stand just as good a chance as anyone else as to if this marriage succeeds or fails. It's up to you to make it work. You've known each other long enough to know what you'r getting into. Let's have a wedding." :thumbsup:
So just like anyone else, we've had our ups and downs over the years. We have both changed over the years, too. We're not the same people we married. Fortunately for us, we are still about 50-50 and have learned the art of the compromise. And fortunately finance and employment are subjects we agreed on 95%.
We've been together since 1979 when I was 18 and she 17. We have a couple of pretty good kids, too. Her parents are now my parents, as mine both passed away long ago. They've always treated me like one of their own. Looking back on it all, I'm a very fortunate man.

So we go back the next week and sit down to go over the results. The priest looks at the results. Looks at us. Looks at the results again.... in three of the subjects we are 95% compatible! That's great!!!! In the other three subjects, we are 95% incompatible! Our hearts sank.
So the priest looks at us and says "About 50% of marriages end in divorce. So that means about 50% of them don't. You stand just as good a chance as anyone else as to if this marriage succeeds or fails. It's up to you to make it work. You've known each other long enough to know what you'r getting into. Let's have a wedding." :thumbsup:
So just like anyone else, we've had our ups and downs over the years. We have both changed over the years, too. We're not the same people we married. Fortunately for us, we are still about 50-50 and have learned the art of the compromise. And fortunately finance and employment are subjects we agreed on 95%.
We've been together since 1979 when I was 18 and she 17. We have a couple of pretty good kids, too. Her parents are now my parents, as mine both passed away long ago. They've always treated me like one of their own. Looking back on it all, I'm a very fortunate man.