Interesting. I have not used a tractor that had BOTH the lever and the electromechanical pull button for engaging the PTO. Seems strange why they would have both. In any event, using a MF2660 larger tractor and 7ft bushhog, (which has only the lever, no button) my practice is to lower engine rpm to idle or near it when I engage the PTO. This minimizes stress on everything involved and has no downside to doing it that way. This larger hog has a slip clutch and even doing it as I described there is always a squeek from the momentary slippage of the slip clutch when it suddenly engages. Same was ture on my JD4700 with a 6ft hog and slip clutch. I have 2 smaller ones , a 4' and 5' bush hog each one driven by a Kubota B2150. These have no slip clutch and lack a truly independent PTO (PTO is not running when the clutch is fully depressed.)I do the same thing with them, cut RPM at time of engagement and then ramp back up once the lurch is over with. Both these Kubota's require clutch depression in order to put the PTO in gear. None of them seem that bad to me. May be good idea to have an experienced 3rd party try yours & see if it appears 'normal' to them.