I came up with this bit of data on a certain valve.
ADJUSTABLE RELIEF (2000 PSI (138 BAR) FACTORY SETTING
KICK-OUT IS NON-ADJUSTABLE
AND HAS A KICK-OUT RANGE OF 800-1000 PSI (55-69 BAR)
So what this is telling me is that it doesn't actually need a spike, just a load on the cyl of 800 to 1000 psi. If you want the cyl to lift a load and relieve at the relief pressure, you do not go into detent.
I look at detent as a quick hands off way of springing the lever back to neutral when the hyd function is completed.
When you try and raise a heavy load in detent with your application, does the cyl ever get to the end of travel?