bigpete
Veteran Member
A complement to his parents for communicating those values. I'm doing my darnd'est with my 12-year-old son and 9-year-old daughter. One gets it, the other reists it. I think they'll both figure it out each his/her own way.
Okay here I go....
Every personal value..., (almost) can be related to parenting. It's instilled at some point that some things are entitled and some things are earned.
My daughter may not "get it" as soon as, or in the same way as, my son. Only because she's absolutely adorable and receives lots of attention based on her looks. Makes for some interesting interaction at home when teachers, parents of friends, and even clerks at Lowes fawn over her and then she has to work for things she wants around here. My son can't wait to meet labor law age restrictions and start working and my daughter wants to watch "Legally Blonde" over and over to see the beautiful slacker graduate from Harvard and take over the legal world....
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Okay here I go....
Every personal value..., (almost) can be related to parenting. It's instilled at some point that some things are entitled and some things are earned.
My daughter may not "get it" as soon as, or in the same way as, my son. Only because she's absolutely adorable and receives lots of attention based on her looks. Makes for some interesting interaction at home when teachers, parents of friends, and even clerks at Lowes fawn over her and then she has to work for things she wants around here. My son can't wait to meet labor law age restrictions and start working and my daughter wants to watch "Legally Blonde" over and over to see the beautiful slacker graduate from Harvard and take over the legal world....
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