Egon
Epic Contributor
There are also cold mix methods that are used on gravel or dirt roads.
Think about the chip coat's put on new existing asphalt roads. A tack coat is sprayed on the existing road, then clean chipped gravel is spread over it and it's packed in with a roller.
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It is all about the type and quality of the bitumen products and how they are applied. What's available in bulk to commercial business may be quite different to what an individual can access in 5 gal. Buckets. Many of the products require heat to be fluid.
I have spread TONS of millings. Almost all of it for contractor parking areas or an access road to a contractor yard and I usually put it down at least 6" to a foot thick so it will bind. Since it is just used asphalt that has been ground up it doesn't have all of the binding ability of fresh asphalt. I never recommend using on a residential driveway because like you're seeing, it always has the loose stones that don't pack in on top, it is very hard to patch a low spot or a pothole after a couple of years and get it to hold, and if it's not put down thick enough it just won't bind.
Don't get me wrong, I completely see the attraction to using it, it can be had reasonably cheap and it kinda looks like a paved driveway. I'm pretty sure if you try to seal it you ( or your wife) won't be happy because you'll be tracking little stones with sealer on them in the house now. The best option may be to professionally chip seal it, they spray the sealer and roll in some stone on the top....