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JMC, I'd like to see a picture of the gizmo you made to help you make the connection. )</font>
Ok, hope you weren't expecting anything elegant. This one is for the male side. The gizmo sides on the male connector and is held there by sliding the cross pin to engage the connector groove. The black bolt, 1/4 -28, compresses the plunger. Whatever you use to compress the plunger, make sure it can't contact the sidewall of the hole in the connector. There's a seal in there that is fragile and I ruined one.
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