I had one of those at one time. Unfortunately he very suddenly passed away. Speaking from experience it's kind of a rough way to deal with it, not that I had any choice. Best mend fences sooner rather than later and yes you can quote me to your sibling.
Don't see that happening. We have an elderly parent and one of us is constantly bitchin at them and telling them how the parent never did anything to help them and still wont :confused2:. AND my sibling is very close to being indigent (lots of very bad life choices) and believes our parent should forfeit their retirement fund. :thumbdown: I'm seriously leaning towards a restraining order for elderly abuse.