Dan:
We agree/disagree because we are not really talking about the same thing, well not exactly. Bankers either have an employee or third party inspect the construction before a payment (draw) to make sure that the amount of work agreed upon has been completed to that point. The banker's lien (mortgage) only covers real estate and materials only become part of the real estate when they are used in the construction; but materials not installed/constructed are not part of the real estate and are not considered collateral. The bank's inspector can sometimes ascertain the percentage of completeness of construction without a close inspection. In fact, the bank's inspector is not looking for detail or if something is even done correctly or by code. He/she is ususally checking to make sure phases of construction are complete before the banker disburses more funds. The detailed inspections you speak of should be made by local jurisdiction code enforcement officers such as plumbing, electrical, and building inspectors. However, getting back to the inspector working for your bank, I think you should mention to your banker your impression that he is not getting an adequate inspection. There are lazy employees and lazy third party inspectors as well as just plain sloppy bankers. If the banker is satisfied with that kind of performance then I would eventually find another banker.
I am glad you found a trustworthy contractor that both you and your banker are comfortable with. If you or your banker did not trust him, you shouldn't even consider doing business with him. However, that is still no reason to advance funds to him until he has completed phases of the work. Always ask yourself, what would I do, how would I be able to complete the house if something happened to my contractor. "I trust this man, but what if he is seriously injured and hospitalized or dies in the middle of my project." Will the money be available to pay someone else to finish the job or have I paid an excess amount to the contractor that I may somehow have to recoup from his estate?
I am not saying you shouldn't trust people. I am trying to make a point that you should be careful and so should your banker. Buying/building a house is one of the most expensive things and the biggest investment most people make in their lifetime. Just be prudent (and so should your banker).
Be prepared for contingencies and don't think it won't happen to you. I once knew a guy that decided to do his own work and pay for the materials as he went without borrowing any money. He came to me one day hat-in-hand begging for construction money because his house that was almost finished had burned to the ground. He had decided that he would wait until he finished the house before insuring it. I can only imagine how he felt and how he could have saved himself a whole lot of time and money if he had insurance.
It sure is easy for me to preach like this, but I have seen much in the last 30 years, both good and bad. I hope your project is successful and that you will love your new home as much as my wife and I love ours in its rural setting. Good luck.
Briarwood