I have never changed where my top link attaches to the tractor from the top hole. I would think the top hole would give the greater lift, but haven't really thought about it. Some of the implements I have also have an upper or lower hole.
It is actually the other way around. At least on all the machines I have worked with.
If you look at a 3pt hitch from the side, you can see that the pivot point for the implement (blade) is where the pins (on the blade) attach to the lower arms of the 3pt. The maximum distance from the ground to the pivot point is solely determined by the rotational angle of the rockshaft and the length of the lift links. They determine the angle upwards of the lower arms.This assumes that lift arms and lower arms have a fixed length, which is the usual case.
The top link determines the angle of the implement, at the pivot point. As the lower arms raise, they work against the top link and force the attachment to pivot back (thus lowering the back of the blade). The reverse happens when the arms lower the attachment. So, if you lower the attachment point of the top link at the tractor, you will change the way the implement rotates about the pivot point. The lower the attachment point for the top link at the tractor, the less the implement rotates back. The result is the more clearance between the ground and the back blade, at the back of the blade.
The relationship between the top link attachment point and it's length is as follows. The attachment point changes the relation between the rotational angle and the lower arm lift angle. The length of the top link changes the minimum and maximum amount of rotation.
So, in general, use the length of the top link to determine the angle of the blade when down on the ground. Use the top link attachment point to alter the angle of the blade when it is fully raised.
Now if everything is perfectly square, in other words if the vertical line drawn up from the point where the lower arms attach to the tractor intersects the point where the top link attaches to the tractor and the same is true for the attachment points on the implement and the length of the lower arms and the top link is the same and the vertical distance between attachment points is the same at the tractor as it is on the implement, then the implement will maintain the same angle as the lower arms and no rotation will occur. That is the neutral position.