Penetrating oil -- KanoLabs.com for Kroil is the best I have ever used. Worst case (after applying heat) would be to drill out the push pin, which will not matter if you go to it from the hole at that point. If you can get it to drill out. FYI, it is spring loaded (not that much spring). Less risk of scarring your pto shaft with the grinder, but a little scarring wont matter.
To heat it, use a propane torch. Propane has the advantage that as a gas it wants to flow along the perimeter of the metal (it's cheap and portable too). The other most common process is oxy-acteylene (cutting torch type set up with a 'rosebud' tip). Propane is cheaper. You will not care if you get it real hot -- nothing wrong with red, but you will likely not need to get that hot. Do it on a cold day and your pto shaft will be smaller -- if you can heat the adapter fast enough then you will get results faster. Try no to get the flames on the pto seal. That wouldn't be good.
To heat it, use a propane torch. Propane has the advantage that as a gas it wants to flow along the perimeter of the metal (it's cheap and portable too). The other most common process is oxy-acteylene (cutting torch type set up with a 'rosebud' tip). Propane is cheaper. You will not care if you get it real hot -- nothing wrong with red, but you will likely not need to get that hot. Do it on a cold day and your pto shaft will be smaller -- if you can heat the adapter fast enough then you will get results faster. Try no to get the flames on the pto seal. That wouldn't be good.