I use the standard 1/2 inch AG connectors but I do this when stopping and taking the grapple off. I shut off the tractor and then operate the valve back and forth several times to relieve pressure. If you have the electric/hydraulic valve then follow the above instructions about turning off the engine and turning the key back on to re-energize the solenoid.
I then disconnect the hoses from the tractor, and since I have both a male and a female connector on the hoses, I immediately connect the hoses to each other. I then immediately disconnect the hoses once again from each other. This allows a very small amount of oil to "puke" out of the hoses. Now the hoses have a deficit of oil in them. I then reconnect the hoses for storage. The male and female connectors help insure that dirt or damage does not occur to the fittings. It also insure you can never hook them up backwards.
Using this procedure, you will never never ever have a problem hooking back up to the tractor. No matter hot or cold or whatever. Remember, the key is allowing some oil to "puke" out of the hoses.