Some of us who are married don't have that problem either ... my agreement with my better half - on the place - is that I look after the outside and she looks after the inside. We've been here for 4 years and she hasn't finished unpacking yet ... so when she says anything about what I'm doing in the pasture, barn, shop, etc ... I just give her "the look" ...
So far I haven't had to sleep in the barn .... yet ....
OH ... this thread is on t-posts, isn't it? Well ... since mine is electric - and the horses respect the wires - a lot - mine are all outside the wire. Corner problem is solved by using 6-8" wood posts on the corners and intersections.