About a dozen years ago I came to the realization that I wasn't happy where I was in life and wanted to make a change. I had a decent union job with great benefits that didn't require any effort or thought. Kind of mindless, just show up, do what I did the day before and then go home. My goal in life was to save up enough to go on vacation twice a year and escape where I lived and what I did. I didn't know that was what I was doing for years, but when I did, it forced me to take a look at my life. I didn't want to continue living like that and decided to make a change. You only live once and I wanted to enjoy all of it, not just get by until I retired and then hope it all got better.
For me, a big part of what I hated was where I lived. The SF Bay area was too crowded, too expensive and too dangerous. When you have to drive past three shopping centers to get to the safe one, something's wrong. Lots of places you just never go to, day or night. Every day is about being safe, and being aware of your surroundings. Profiling those around you.
It took a couple of years to put it all together and find the best place to start over again, which worked out just right. My first plan was to go to school to learn HVAC. I bought some books, talked to some people and searched online for places that where hiring. In the end, I decided not to do it because I didn't want to work for somebody else and have to deal with the same things every day.
I started out flipping houses, then building a few spec homes to sell for profit. That went well for a few years, but the market changed and while waiting for a house to sell, I started doing handy man jobs. As my clientele grew, I got more into remodeling. Now I'm booked up for months in advance and haven't advertised in about ten years. It's all word of mouth and people searching me out online and finding me on Angies List or FB. I don't have those benefits that I had at my previous union job, but I make twice as much money doing what I enjoy and I have more time off to enjoy life. I also live at a place I love to be at and no longer have the need to escape and get away from where I live. Every day is like being on vacation!!! In fact, it's more relaxing being home then going on vacation.
Now that you are wanting to make the change, it's only going to become more important to you every day. Figure out what you want and work towards making it happen, but be sure to always consider another change or two. Rarely does your first plan work out like you expect it to, so you have to be willing to recognize that and adjust. When I left CA, I had a dozen friends doing the same thing at just about the same time. We all went someplace different, we all had a plan on what we where going to do, but only one other guy besides me has made it work. The others all went back to CA and got similar jobs doing what they where trying to get away from.
Good luck,
Eddie