I do not know enough about the valve in the picture or your machine to give you a adatailed answer. However, if the only function of that valve is to raise and lower the blade, in theory, you should be able to replace the current valve with a 2 lever valve that will do what you want. I know you are not fond of your local shop, but they can tell you how to safely add a 2 lever valve. Once again, assuming the current valve's only job is to control the blade, you can insert a 2 lever valve its place. Then, all you would need is a tilt cylinder and the hydraulic lines. Of course , you still need to address any relief settings, flow rates, etc to keep the system safe. My knowledge is also limited so let's hope someone joins in that can give you additional direction. If it were me I would get all of the help I could from the local shops and from any engineering or trade schools in my area that teach hydraulics.
The basic design would take the input from the current valve and connect it to the new 2 lever valve. The output from the 2 lever valve would go the the same place that the output is going from the current valve. One lever would control the lift and the other would control the tilt. Finally, just mount the tilt cylinder, connect the hydraulic lines and start having fun.
BUT, ONLY AFTER YOU CONFIRM THE ROLE OF THE CURRENT VALVE AND TAKE THE REQUIRED SAFELY MEASURES BY INSTALLING ANY NEEDED RELIEF VALVES AND RETURNING THE FLUID BACK TO THE TANK.
1. How many hoses are connected to the current valve (4,5,6)?
2. Is the blade lift the only hydraulic component on your machine?
3. What is at the other end of the input and output hoses?
4. Is the input coming directly from a pump?
5. Is the output returning directly to the tank?
6. Is the relief valve part of the current valve and what is the relief setting?
Since the blade is already designed to tilt, you are ahead of the game.
I hope this helps...PS, if you are not sure take pictures.
James