My youngest daughter will be 4 in Feb. I MUST work for at least 20 more years... I will never get to retire...
That happens to be my retirement motto at the moment. I will be 49 this year, the wife is something like 20 months o l d e r (that is TOP SECRET BTW). She quit working outside the home while pregnant with our 14 year old daughter. She has a very small retirement account or two, I've put some money into hers when it was expedient and available. I have 3 mortgages and a HELOC because I own a huge swanky house in town, a little house on 2.1 acres out by the Lake, and this ramshackle modular on 50.77 acres we live in. Thank God both other houses are rented to what seems to be solid tenants. Both houses the mortgages are less than their CURRENT values, so if forced to sell it is all MY MONEY lost and not the bank (yes, I am likely too heavily invested in Real Estate, too late for that now...) My retirement accounts are slowly growing, mostly due to contribution and matching contribution, and 2 years of maxxed SEP input. The investments typically have gone sideways for the last 10-12 years... I worked for Intel for over 10 years from '92 to '02 and all of the stock employee purchase plan stuff the wife and I bought over that time we paid an average of ~$25 and yesterday it traded for $21.32 (Thank God for Dividends).
I've known since High School in 1982 I would NEVER see any SS (Reagan taught me that), I've always known it was a govt. scam.
I've moved all my fully vested retirement accounts into MY controlled SEP IRA and they are doing better, but it requires some work to at least decide what to buy and hold, and what to sell.
Where is this TooMuchInformation post going? The simple fact is I truly believe what I posted above, I will never get to "retire". Part of it is due to the times in which we live in today, and the ridiculous stuff our govt. has done to destroy our future with debt and inflation. Part of it is due to choices I've made in how much to save, and how much to LIVE. Maybe the real estate market will recover and make my investments there look genius, but I'm not counting on more than breaking even and regaining my capital that I've invested, a slight return would be nice though... I work hard and I try to climb the ladder. I believe strongly in Biblical stewardship philosophy about all of this and I feel God has entrusted me with these resources and my little flock, and I MUST care and tend for these blessings.
I suspect strongly I woll never "retire" in the commonly held fashion. I will probably need to have a few side jobs for beer money at minimum just because of my nature.
The other side of the coin is also that both my wife and I feel compelled to learn more about self sufficiency, and how to survive really tough times and do well regardless. It may very well be those are the best investments we can make...
Good luck and many Blessings upon you and yours on this road we are all travelling together...
Be well all,
David