Rear is 8250lbs, front is 5200lbs. Truck max GVWR is 11500 trailer GVWR was 15680 - combined total was 27,180 . DOT said I was OK for farm use (hauling hay), but if I went to do something not farm related in the eyes of DOT like hauling equipment, I could get in trouble, so de-rating was the solution.
My dry pin weight on my 23' PJ GN is 1230lbs (trailer weight is 4920lbs) so 25%. Dry axle load on the truck was about 4000 lbs fueled with me and tool box in it. It is rated to haul a 4500 lb like a camper, so the scale weight were is about right. The 20% and 25% loading rule is for a uniform load, or a load split over the trailer axles. Once you move the load forward, it becomes more of a point load and can quickly overload the pin weight
So in a nut shell I can handle a pin weight of roughly 4250 lbs. Less dry pin weight leaves additional live load on the pin of 4250-1230 = 3,020 lbs. If I put the 9K load in front of the trailer axles, 1/2 goes to the truck so I was overloading the rear axle. Moving the load back over the trailer axles put more weight on the trailer, thus less on the truck. The scale I used was at my local COOP and they were happy to take the time to figure things out with me. They said they typically see over 60% of the farmers that use their scales with a GN are overloaded either on the trailer or truck as it is very easy to get the load distribution wrong.
The trick for me was to watch my helper springs. If they just made contact I was good, full contact and I was over.
Remember when doing the numbers, you need to take into account what your truck weight is empty and axle loading, then know your dry pin weight, and then place you equipment loading accordingly.
I am no expert on this, but hope it helps.