On black corrugated, yes the 4" stuff does collapse pretty easily, if you're driving a tractor around on it. But the 6" and larger diameters are much, much heavier. I'd challenge anyone to collapse 8" black corrugated... ever.
When working in 4" or 6", I really prefer SDR-35 over anything else. I will use full sch.40 PVC under anything that will be totally inaccessible later (e.g. concrete patio), but everywhere else gets SDR-35. We have a large house built in 4 phases over 280 years (actually 6 phases, if you count two large patios with separate drainage systems), and this has resulted in multiple completely-separated drainage systems leading away from house to wetlands at the property boundaries, roughly 1/4 mile of the stuff. Never any problems with SDR-35.