Boondox
My septic tank handles only the water from the toilets.
ALL other water is classed as grey around here.
Up till now you can do with it as you like, as long as you aren't in a sewered area as this place was only 10 years old and had no greywater system at all.
The norm around here is to drain it all to a sump and pump it out over the lawn.
Luckily here we are on the top of a hill, so all mine is gravity fed. Used to feed trees along the driveway, but the lint and soap and grease used to clog up the pipes.
We didn't even have a grease trap, which I have now installed.
So all the water now just goes out through flexible pipes which I just move around the yard.
I have them in the front yard, where the kids won't be.
I understand there is a health issue with it, but as yet there aren't too many rules.
There are issues with faecel matter from showers, baths and washing machines, but I figure there is plenty of good old water to dilute that, and if it is out in the sun, what hurt can it do. There is worse than that coming out of birds and dogs bums wandering around the yard !
That's my take on grey water anyway.
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